Managing menopause at home
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Perimenopause - self-care; Hormone replacement therapy - self-care; HRT- self-care
What to expect at home
Menopause is most often a natural event that normally occurs between the ages of 45 and 55. After menopause, a woman can no longer become pregnant.
For most women, menstrual periods will slowly stop over time.
- During this time, your periods may become either more closely or more widely spaced. This pattern may last for 1 to 3 years.
- Menopause is complete when you have not had a period for 1 year. This is called post menopause.
Your menstrual flow may come to a sudden halt after surgeries to remove your ovaries, chemotherapy, or certain hormone treatments for breast cancer.
Hot flashes and sweats are at their worst for the first 1 to 2 years after your last period. Menopause symptoms may last 5 or more years.
Your doctor may have prescribed hormone therapy to relieve symptoms of menopause such as hot flashes, sleep problems, and vaginal symptoms.
Take these hormones the way your doctor prescribed them. Ask your doctor what you should do if you miss a dose.
When taking hormones:
- Follow up carefully with your doctor.
- Ask about when you need mammograms or a test to check your bones.
- Do not smoke. Smoking will increase the chance of blood clots in your legs or your lungs.
- Report any new vaginal bleeding right away. Also report menstrual bleeding that comes more often or is more severe.
Managing hot flashes
To help control hot flashes:
- Dress lightly and in layers. Try to keep your environment cool.
- Practice slow, deep breathing whenever a hot flash starts to come on. Try taking six breaths per minute.
- Try relaxation techniques such as yoga, tai chi, or meditation.
Watching what you eat or drink can improve your symptoms and help you sleep:
- Eat at regular times each day. Eat a healthy diet that is low in fat and includes lots of fruits and vegetables.
- Milk and other dairy products contain tryptophan, which may help induce sleep.
- If you can, avoid coffee, colas with caffeine, and energy drinks completely. If not you can't avoid them, try not to have any after the early part of the afternoon.
- Alcohol may make your symptoms worse and often leads to a more disrupted sleep.
Nicotine stimulates the body and will make it harder to fall asleep. This includes both cigarettes and smokeless tobacco. So if you smoke, consider quitting.
Vaginal dryness may be relieved by using a water-soluble vaginal lubricant during intercourse. Do not use petroleum jelly.
- Over the counter vaginal moisturizers are also available and can help to improve vaginal dryness.
- Ask your doctor about vaginal estrogen creams.
Once you have not had a period for 1 year, you are no longer at risk of becoming pregnant. Before that, use birth control to prevent pregnancy. Do not use mineral oils or other oils if you use condoms, as these may damage latex condoms or diaphragms.
Kegel exercises can help with vaginal muscle tone and help you control urine leakage.
Reach out to other people. Find someone you trust (such as a friend, family member, or neighbor) who will listen to you and offer support. Often, just talking to someone helps relieve some of the anxiety and stress of menopause.
Get plenty of exercise. It can help you feel healthier and will keep your bones strong.
You need enough calcium and vitamin D to prevent bone thinning (osteoporosis):
- You need about 1,200 mg of calcium per day from food sources or supplements. Eat high calcium foods, such as cheese, leafy green vegetables, low-fat milk and other dairy, salmon, sardines, and tofu, or take a calcium supplement. You can make a list of calcium contained in your food to find out how much calcium you usually get from your diet. If you fall below 1,200 mg, add a supplement to make up the rest.
- You need 800 to 1,000 IU of vitamin D a day. Diet and sunlight provide some. But most menopausal women need to take vitamin D supplements.
- Calcium and vitamin D supplements can be taken as separate supplements or combined as one.
- If you have a history of kidney stones, talk with your doctor first.
After menopause, a woman's risk for heart disease and stroke goes up. Ask your doctor about what you should do to control your blood pressure, cholesterol, and other risk factors for heart disease.
When to call the doctor
Call your doctor if you find you are unable to manage your symptoms of menopause with home care only.
Also call your doctor if you have any unusual menstrual bleeding, or if you have any spotting or bleeding at all 1 year or more after your last period.
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- Last reviewed on 8/5/2013
- Susan Storck, MD, FACOG, Chief, Eastside Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Group Health Cooperative of Puget Sound, Bellevue, Washington; Clinical Teaching Faculty, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Washington School of Medicine. Also reviewed by David Zieve, MD, MHA, Bethanne Black, and the A.D.A.M. Editorial team.
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